Friday, January 16, 2009

Phrases to Keep Peace

(CNN/The Complete Sheet)

Have you ever noticed how often a tiny, offhand comment will inadvertently offend someone . . . and lead to a major argument? I have.

--If you have too, here are TEN go-to phrases you can use to defuse a potentially volatile conversation . . . and keep the peace.


#1.) "Thank you for your opinion. I'll think about it."


#2.) "Is this a good time for you?"


#3.) "Would you like my thoughts?"


#4.) "Why don't we get the facts?"


#5.) "I need your help. Can you please . . .?"


#6.) "Let's wait on this until we have more information."


#7.) "What did you mean by that?"


#8.) "I don't like that, so why don't we do this instead?"


#9.) "I'm sorry you're upset."


#10.) "Let me get back to you."